Stateside… for a while
So, we recently found out that it might be possible to get a waiver to bring Alberto back to the states. The only catch is that I have to come back up to the states to work for a little while because we’re not making enough in Mexico to pay for the lawyer and all the waiver and filing fees. (Not to mention getting any paperwork he has to sign notarized at the Embassy in Mexico – $50 per document.)
As soon as I got back to the states I started filling out applications for every job I could find near my daughter’s house. I wonder what the people in H.R. think when they see my work and school information from Mexico. It’s very difficult for me to not be working right now. I am accustomed to working and I have to pay a little more than $3000 in all between the lawyer, waiver fees and Embassy fees. I doubt that I will even be able to get something small for my kids & grandson for Christmas. I haven’t been able to do anything for them since moving to Mexico. I gave up a good job when I moved, gave my kids all the family heirlooms, gave my middle daughter my car, and sold everything else. So, now I’m starting from scratch, though thankfully my oldest daughter is letting me stay with her.
It is heartbreaking to be in this situation. I want to be near my kids and be able to help them, but I also want to be with my husband. If I stay in Mexico then I have little chance of visiting my kids and no chance of helping them. The only reason I was able to come back to the states this time is because a good friend paid for my ticket. I am scared that if I stay here long enough to earn money to pay for all the legal work that it might hurt the chances of bringing my husband back. What’s even worse is the fact that if we had gone through the process this year instead of in 2009 he most likely would not have been deported due to new legislation.