Posted on 05/09/2006. Filed under: Frustration, Relationships |

I find something very puzzling….  If you read my posts I think it’s fairly obvious that I am happy with the person I’m dating.  I would hope it’s also clear that I’m not the type of girl who would want to cheat on her sweetheart.  However, for some odd reason I keep getting messages from men who want me to throw all that aside to play with them.

SO…. Here goes my rant on this subject:

I am very happy with who I am dating.

I think cheating on your spouse/significant other is WRONG.  You made a commitment to them for a reason, so if things aren’t working do what you can to fix it… it takes two people to make a relationship work. If you are spending time looking for people to “add excitement” or “get something you’re missing” that’s time you’re not spending with the person you profess to care for – which is probably WHY they aren’t affectionate to you – if you ignore them or focus on what’s wrong with them then they will pull away from you. Yes, I know it’s not always that way and there are other factors that cause a rift… but, if you focus your energy on fixing the problem instead of on how to cheat then you might fix it and have a better relationship than you ever dreamed of.

If you’re determined to have an affair please don’t message people who are happy in their relationships.  I do not like talking to people who say they are interested “just in friendship” and then turn around to say they want me to help them cheat on their partner.  I am NOT interested!!

Sad to say most of the guys who are looking to cheat never even bother to read anything I’ve written, so this rant won’t really help with the messages I get.

However, if for some odd reason you are interested in cheating and you’ve found yourself reading this blog do not bother messaging me, it’s a waste of my time and yours.  Go give your sweetie a massage or do something else nice for her instead… you might be surprised with the result.


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You mean all those times you slapped me on the back of the head when I was flirting was meant to deter me??? Oh, well, at least now I know. 🙂

LMAO!! Silly!

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